The Second Hardest Job: Professional Caregiver

Since we started Support For Home In-Home Care, we have consistently said that the hardest job in the world is that of the family caregiver.  From the beginning, we were aware of the fact that over 60% of family caregivers die before the person for whom they are caring.  We still firmly believe that, from our own families' stories, as well as working with our clients and their families.

When the business began, my folks needed some support to stay at home safely and with a high quality of life.  Over the past few years that need increased, and my two sisters up in Oregon were fantastic about ensuring they got what they needed.  Unfortunately, both of my parents passed away this year, but the hard work and devotion of my sisters were critical to helping them and the rest of us through that experience.

Even before our home care agency was rolling, my co-owner's experience was a critical learning experience.  Her father had a stroke in his early 90s, and her mother was the primary caregiver.  Her mother was younger, but the stress on her, physically and emotionally, were dramatically apparent, including developing Diabetes.

But, if being the primary, family caregiver is the hardest job in the world, being a professional caregiver / Home Care Aide, is a pretty close second.  That is so not just because of the duties that Home Care Aides perform.  It is also true because they choose to work with, to support, folks that they know have a high probability of losing at some time in the future.  Perhaps that loss will be to s skilled nursing facility or to a family home in a different location or -- the worst loss, of course -- the death of the client.

Professional caregivers know this, not just on the level of statistics and probability, but on a very personal basis.  When we interview the professional, experienced Home Care Aides that we want for Support For Home, one of the questions we always ask goes something like, "Why and how did you become a professional caregiver, and, after you learned how hard it is, why is this still your profession?"

The typical answer we get back, with sincerity, from the folks we tend to hire, is, "But this job isn't hard!  I love what I am doing."  Those same wonderful people will tell you -- have told us -- when someone they are caring for dies, "You never, ever get over it."  And, we know they do not get over it.  But their passion for caregiving carries them forward to the next or their other clients.  With grieving, yes, but without a loss of passion.

We would love to tell you their names and their stories, but privacy for both the employee and the client prevents that.  We will find a way.  But in the meantime, thank you to every single person who has taken care of a Support For Home client the way they should.  No, thank you to every professional caregiver out there who has worked at any other agency and made a positive difference in the lives of seniors and others who need help living at home. You have the second hardest job in the world.

Best wishes, Bert

Robot Care for Seniors at Home?

OK, so I am a self-confessed techno-geek.  I did Information Technology work for 25+ years, including 18 years at Intel Corporation, retiring as an IT Director.  I love video games and computers and technology in general.

And then, there is "Elder Care Robot," from Gecko Systems.  I believe that this kind of technology can play a significant future role in senior care, but at this stage, frankly it is just plain creepy. 

Most forms of technology start out looking as sad as this does, so I am not saying it is or will be a failure.  For some of our clients, automated medication containers pop open and tell the client it is time to take some pills.  The co-owner of Support For Home and I both supported Intel's Digital Health business when we were in IT at that corporation.  We remain huge fans of the effort of our former colleagues.

All that having been said, I might have kept this metal beast under wraps for a bit longer, if I were Gecko Systems.  When they can build in a bit more "human touch" into their technology, they might just have something.  We will be happy to welcome them to our home care team.

Best wishes (including to caregiver robots), Bert

Dementia and Alzheimer's Series #5: Driving

There is an excellent, on-going  series of in The New York Times, called The New Old Age.  Written by Paula Span and Jane Gross, the blog series covers a wide variety of topics involved in aging and senior care.  All of the topics are important, but one that concerns us very much, at Support For Home and Senior Care Solutions, is driving.

In an April 2010 article, titled "Driving While Demented," Paula Span points out that "several studies had shown that a considerable number of those with mild dementia — 41 percent to 76 percent, depending on the study — could pass an on-road driving test."  We absolutely believe that.  It does not, however, mean that folks with dementia should be driving.  Rather, it means that we do not have good driving tests!

Every one of us who drives has "gotten away" with periods of inattention or bad judgment.  Some one else avoided the accident we might have caused or there was no one else around.  The point is, even without dementia, driving is extremely dangerous.  When families look at Dad or Mom and consider whether they should be driving, they either forget that or do not want to face it.

One reason they do not want to face it is they might then have to be the "bad guys" and take the keys away from someone who has been an authority in their lives forever.  They do not want to hurt their parent(s).  In our view, this is simply making the wrong choice.

Paula Span includes two very important points in her article, including the standard used by the American Association for Geriatric Psychiatry, as stated by their past President, Dr. Gary Kennedy:

“Our recommendation is that you stop driving once you have a dementia diagnosis.”

Less formally, he relies on “the grandchild rule”: If a patient’s children don’t want the grandchildren in the car when the patient is driving, he or she needs to relinquish the keys before hurting someone else’s grandchildren.

We think that is a good approach.  Assume that there are children who are at risk -- because they always are when we drive -- and let that guide you.

Too often, we talk to seniors with dementia and family members who think that driving is OK, as long as it is just in the local area.  Our response to that is to ask where most non-driving accidents happen: answer, at home, with the bathroom the most dangerous location.  So, being close to home does not improve our safety.  Why would it do so while we are driving?

Another reason that some families want Dad or Mom to keep driving is that they see it as therapy.  "It keeps him stimulated and sharper," we actually heard from one daughter.  With all due respect, NO!  This is part of a larger problem we will talk about in another article, which is that some families are unable to absorb that dementia is truly a disease; that their parent(s) cannot help their behavior; and that it is not going to get better simply by expecting the parent(s) to work at it.
 
Best wishes,
 
Carol Kinsel, Senior Care Solutions

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Bert Cave, Support For Home

 
 
 

Helping Caregivers Be All That They Can Be

From Carlotta Sanchez, Care Services Manager

At Support For Home one of my responsibilities is to make sure that our Home Care Aides receive the proper training and knowledge necessary to give the best care to our clients.  That covers a very broad range of issues, from continuing education credits for our Certified Nurse Assistants and Certified Home Health Aides to the glycemic index for blood sugar impact in diets for our clients.
 
Today, a caregiver had a question concerning support hosiery (compression stockings) and how to properly put them on a client. Support Hose are used to reduce stress on the blood vessels in the legs. They are essentially very tight fitting socks that come in different brands and varieties, which can go to the mid-calf, knees, and upper thighs.
 
For something this basic, there are no classes offered to teach a Home Care Aide how to do this, so they must find a willing healthcare professional to ask about it or go to the Internet, which is what I did. I found an excellent video on YouTube that describes how to easily put Support Hose on a client.  I do not endorse the Internet as the best source for how to be a great family or professional caregiver, but it does have some great insights to help Home Care Aides gain better understanding of the various tasks required.

So, check out the YouTube video on putting on compression stockings.  A great hint is that the gloves in the video can be switched out for dishwashing gloves, which can definitely make it easier to put the hose on.

We are always here to support our caregivers, to help them do their job and realize the talent and potential they have to continually give the optimal care our clients deserve.

Rewards Do Not Always Mean Revenue

A few days ago, our Director of Client Services, Tonja, received a call from a nurse on a case management team who was at a loss as to how to help a client. The gentleman in question lives in a rural area, and is at a rehabilitation facility quite some distance away, recovering from surgery.

The nurse reported that the man was becoming increasingly anxious, thinking of his mail not being picked up and wanting to manage his household business while in the facility.  Support For Home had helped quite a few patients from the rehab facility by providing home care after the patients were discharged.  The nurse did not know what we could do, but she -- and the patient -- needed help.

This was not about home care, so whatever we did was not going to generate an invoice.  There was not going to be any revenue.  To us, that did not matter. 

The Social Worker inside our Director of Client Services took over, and she made a number of phone calls and reached the local senior center, whose representative stated that with written permission, their volunteers who deliver homebound meals in that area could pick up his mail.  The senior center even offered to priority mail his correspondence for free! 

Tonja phoned back the nurse from the case management team, and after providing her with the information she needed to assist her client, she stated, “I always call Support For Home when I don’t know what to do – you always help!”  We just got our reward -- smiles in the office for the rest of the day!

Working together to assist older adults, no matter what their issue: that’s what this industry should always be about, whether that is a nurse who is smart enough to know that not every issue involved in recovery is medical and caring enough to do something about it, or a home care agency that knows not every reward has a $ in front of it or a senior center dedicated to their mission.  We love it!  Nobody told the patient to just get over it or not worry about it.  We all worked together to help, treating the senior with dignity and respect.